{"id":802,"date":"2011-09-24T16:00:45","date_gmt":"2011-09-24T06:00:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/asktheatheist.com\/?p=802"},"modified":"2011-09-25T09:26:07","modified_gmt":"2011-09-24T23:26:07","slug":"802","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/asktheatheist.com\/?p=802","title":{"rendered":"Death On The Brain"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Question from Leon:<\/strong><br \/>\nHey, I&#8217;m a 17 year old boy and I can&#8217;t seem to get my mind off the idea of God and religion. It all happened during the May 21 end of the world BS caused by Harold camping. I knew it wouldn&#8217;t happen but it got me thinking, if I did die what would happen to me?<br \/>\n<br \/>\nFor the past 4 months I have thought about it every day and it&#8217;s beginning to kinda scare me.<br \/>\nI am not religious at all. To be perfectly honest I don&#8217;t believe in God as there are so many contradictions and lies and things that have been logically proven against religion.<br \/>\n<br \/>\nBut I can&#8217;t stop thinking about it. Like &#8220;What if?&#8221;<br \/>\n<br \/>\nI think you stated once in another question\/answer that you had a similar problem and managed to stop thinking about it.<br \/>\nAny help would be great.<br \/>\nThank you.<br \/>\n<br \/>\n<strong>Answer by <a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/smartlx\">SmartLX<\/a>:<\/strong><br \/>\nYes, <a href=\"https:\/\/asktheatheist.com\/?p=669\">here&#8217;s<\/a> where I briefly discuss my childhood issues with death.  All I really said about it was that it&#8217;s better for me now.<br \/>\n<br \/>\nWhat happened at the time was what often happens to little boys: I got distracted by other things.  A few years later, though, I saw death for the first time; my grandmother died after a failed operation. I barely gave a thought to the afterlife because I was completely shattered by the fact that she was gone from <em>my<\/em> life.  That&#8217;s what really happens when you die: you leave a great big hole in the lives of those close to you.  While this can be tragic, at least you know you can prepare for it.<br \/>\n<br \/>\nA month after writing the piece linked above, I did another one called <a href=\"https:\/\/asktheatheist.com\/?p=335\"><em>Death: just curious<\/em><\/a>.  There I talk about one of the really scary ideas people have about death (scarier than Hell, I think).  The thing to remember is that if there is an afterlife, the possibilities are endless; if there&#8217;s something specific you&#8217;re really afraid will happen to you, the chances of it actually being what happens are vanishingly small next to the endless alternatives.  It&#8217;s like the chances that the real god (if any) is the specific one a person happens to believe in.  In an infinitely wide race, backing any one horse is a bad bet.<br \/>\n<br \/>\nIn just under a month you&#8217;ll have a chance to get some closure on the whole Harold Camping business.  When nothing happened on May 21, Camping revised his prediction to say that the Rapture <em>and<\/em> the end of the world would happen together on October 21.  Camping had a stroke in June and it may not be possible to get his reaction to looking even sillier on October 22, but what you will see is a lot of Christians doing their best to put the whole sorry mess behind them.  It will further highlight the lack of evidence that religious <a href=\"https:\/\/asktheatheist.com\/?p=75\">predictions<\/a> are worth the paper they&#8217;re written on, even if they&#8217;re in a free Gideon Bible.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question from Leon: Hey, I&#8217;m a 17 year old boy and I can&#8217;t seem to get my mind off the idea of God and religion. It all happened during the May 21 end of the world BS caused by Harold camping. I knew it wouldn&#8217;t happen but it got me thinking, if I did die &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/asktheatheist.com\/?p=802\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Death On The Brain&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[6],"tags":[89,281,88,280],"class_list":["post-802","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-text","tag-afterlife","tag-armageddon","tag-death","tag-end-of-the-world"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/sB6tr-802","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/asktheatheist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/802","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/asktheatheist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/asktheatheist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/asktheatheist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/asktheatheist.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=802"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/asktheatheist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/802\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":805,"href":"https:\/\/asktheatheist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/802\/revisions\/805"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/asktheatheist.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=802"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/asktheatheist.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=802"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/asktheatheist.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=802"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}